Tom Tobrook’s wife, Mary, was a serving officer in the US Navy with 24years’ service, of which he is extremely proud. She was a Surface Warfare Officer (SWO) and the first Women Officer to be permanently forward deployed in a war zone when she saw active service in the Gulf War.
Appropriately they were married at sea by the Captain of the Crown Princess on an extended Baltic cruise.
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Mary’s family is from Hawaii of Madeiran and Azores ancestry. She is a former Berkeley scholar and has a Doctorate in Organisation and Management.
Tobrook and his young family live in North Michigan where they enjoy a lakeside and winter wonderland lifestyle above the 45th Parallel.
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They retain a small cottage in the UK. Mary is a self-confessed Anglophile being a particular devotee of Jane Austen. By some irony, the couple enjoyed an extended 5 year stay living in the former house of Jane Austen’s brother. Charles Austen was a Royal Navy Captain and his large 1840’s house with its walled garden overlooked the Solent.